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How men’s Fear relates to Domestic Violence
It can be surprising to discover how a man’s fear can have any connection to Domestic Violence, after all isn’t it all about power and control? This video looks at how ‘fear’ is often a driver behind the behaviour and once we know that our fears can operate as a type...
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Men and managing our Anger in Relationships
We’ve all done it: have a row, argue or get very frustrated with our partner. That’s life, but some of us take anger too far yelling in their faces, punching the walls next to them, even hitting the person we love or care about. This video looks at men’s anger and...
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Men and our Need for Power in Relationships
What drives some men to feel that being in a relationship is the same as owning a possession. “You’re mine and I have the right to control you”. This video looks at domestic violence and men’s need for power in relationships. Rather focusing on how bad men can...
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Help! I Want to Stop Hitting My Partner
This video talks about domestic violence but rather than focusing on how bad men can be its understanding the abuser aspect and what men can do about it. As Dean Quirke shows the first phase is learning what drives this behaviour and secondly what men can do to have...
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Why Women Don’t Leave Abusive Relationships
It is a common question, if life is so bad with a man why doesn’t the woman simply leave? This video explains why it is much more complex than simply walking out the door and not coming back. Dean Quirke Men’s Wellbeing Expert Sydney Australia Phone +61 431441213...
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Men and How to Feel Better About Me
Everyone operates better when they feel positive about themselves. This video talks about the importance of building self-esteem rather than continuously focusing on what we and everyone else has done wrong. As Dean Quirke explains this is a start so men can have...
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If you Hate Yourself: it’s time to find the Gold Inside. Understanding Men’s Guilt and Shame
This video talks about men’s guilt and shame but rather than focusing on how bad men can be, this is about understanding what men can do about it. As Dean Quirke shows the first phase is learning what drives this behaviour and secondly what men can do to have...
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How Star Wars explains Domestic Violence
Many wonder why some men use Domestic Violence. This video talks about the abuser aspect and about how it developed in the young Anakin Skywalker who grew to become Darth Vader in Star Wars. It may be a just a story, but as Dean Quirke explains there is much truth...
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For Men Who Think – I have to be Tough and Hard
Through no fault of their own some men are trapped in the “I have to be as hard as nails” story. Often it’s created growing up in a violent or dangerous environment and as an adult it can be useful in rare situations like going to war. However, it blocks building good...
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What to do if a Man in Your Family is Violent or Abusive
Dean Quirke talks about what to do if a man in your family is violent or abusive. He is a Men’s Wellbeing Trainer and has co-authored a book on Domestic Violence. He’s based in Sydney Australia Phone +61 431441213 Email: deanymg@gmail.com Domestic Violence...
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How to Work with Men in Domestic Violence
This video talks about how to work with men in domestic violence and the military but rather focusing on how bad men can be, this is about understanding the abuser aspect and what men can do about it. As Dean Quirke shows the first phase is learning what drives this...
