This video talks about domestic violence but rather than focusing on how bad men can be, this offers an understanding of the abuser aspect and what men can do about it. As Dean Quirke shows the first phase is learning what drives this behaviour and secondly what men...
It can be surprising to discover how a man’s fear is connected to Domestic Violence, after all isn’t it all about power and control? This video looks at how ‘fear’ is often a driver behind the behaviour and once we know how our fears operate we can get the support...
We’ve all done it: have a row, argue or get very frustrated with our partner. That’s life, but some of us take anger too far yelling in their faces, punching the walls next to them, even hitting the person we love or care about. This video looks at men’s anger and...
What drives some men to feel that being in a relationship is the same as owning a possession. “You’re mine and I have the right to control you”. This video looks at men’s need for power in relationships, but rather than focusing on how bad men can be this opens...
This video talks about domestic violence but rather than focusing on how bad men can be its understanding the abuser aspect and what men can do about it. As Dean Quirke shows the first phase is learning what drives this behaviour and secondly what men can do to have...
It is a common question, if life is so bad with a man why doesn’t the woman simply leave? This video explains why it is much more complex than simply walking out the door and not coming back. Dean Quirke is the co-author of Toxic Love https://www.toxiclove.com.au/...
Everyone operates better when they feel positive about themselves. This video talks about the importance of building self-esteem rather than continuously focusing on what we and everyone else has done wrong. As Dean Quirke explains this is a start so men can have...
This video talks about men’s guilt and shame but rather than focusing on how bad men can be, this is about understanding what men can do about it. As Dean Quirke shows the first phase is learning what drives this behaviour and secondly what men can do to have...
Many wonder why some men use Domestic Violence. This video talks about the abuser aspect and about how it developed in the young Anakin Skywalker who grew to become Darth Vader in Star Wars. It may be a story, but as Dean Quirke explains it helps show how the seeds of...
Through no fault of their own some men are trapped in the ‘I have to be as hard as nails’ story. This ultra masculine view usually comes from growing up in a violent or dangerous environment. The down side is it blocks the ability to build healthy, functional...
Dean Quirke talks about what to do if a man in your family is violent or abusive. Dean Quirke is the co-author of Toxic Love https://www.toxiclove.com.au/ https://www.facebook.com/toxiclovecommunity Phone +61 431441213 Email: info@toxiclove.com.au Domestic Violence...
This video talks about how to work with men in domestic violence and the military but rather focusing on how bad men can be, this is about understanding the abuser aspect and what men can do about it. As Dean Quirke shows the first phase is learning what drives this...
